According to D, I mean D told A that D and J no longer in any hanky panky relationship or whatever you want to call it..

The thing A have tried so hard to believe in D and A keep having nightmares every night, seeing D with J or some random girls.

What should A do?

Q: Will you still play when (note: this is supposed to be IF) I come back?

A: Maybe. I dont know. Maybe when you come back, I am bored of playing around.


Pauses.....

A: Life is short, why do I have to do this? Why do I have to stay with you and only you when I can go around and experience everything.

So,it's like this...

A is with D.

J is with some random people that we shall call T (yes, they are together).


A is hanging out with friend that we shall call W in a place we shall refer as MV.


So, D is with J, emotionally attached perhaps, or maybe just material based r/s. D and J was walking and met A with W. A is fully aware that D is with J. So, A is cast a smile and continue talking to W.

So, J asked D, "Why is A with another butch who-is-actually-W? why A saw you but no reaction?"

So my question is, who is J to ask this kind of question when she is supposed to be with T, the designated partner, she hang with D, the one who is attached to A.

So, J, this is my two cents.

I mean do you get what I mean, it is as if you are trying to say that A is cheating when all this while, you are cheating on your T? You don't have any rights at all to even comment on that. If you are the holy saint and goody goody type that doesn't cheat. Run back to your T and get on with life.

Then, what do you expect A to do?? Attack you in public so that you can have a point of saying that A actually attacked you in public and D should leave A for embarrassing J in public? Don you think that what A did is very mature? Ah well, I guess, J is too childish in that matter.

I just dont get what J is trying to do, hey, bored of relationship, dont be in one. It takes commitment, trust, lots of sharing, love. Okay, the key point here is commitment. It takes effort to be in commitment, really, it does. If you are acting like this, you will suffer the whole time. What will all the curses that you are going to have.

J, get over it.