J is with some random people that we shall call T (yes, they are together).
A is hanging out with friend that we shall call W in a place we shall refer as MV.
So, D is with J, emotionally attached perhaps, or maybe just material based r/s. D and J was walking and met A with W. A is fully aware that D is with J. So, A is cast a smile and continue talking to W.
So, J asked D, "Why is A with another butch who-is-actually-W? why A saw you but no reaction?"
So my question is, who is J to ask this kind of question when she is supposed to be with T, the designated partner, she hang with D, the one who is attached to A.
So, J, this is my two cents.
I mean do you get what I mean, it is as if you are trying to say that A is cheating when all this while, you are cheating on your T? You don't have any rights at all to even comment on that. If you are the holy saint and goody goody type that doesn't cheat. Run back to your T and get on with life.
Then, what do you expect A to do?? Attack you in public so that you can have a point of saying that A actually attacked you in public and D should leave A for embarrassing J in public? Don you think that what A did is very mature? Ah well, I guess, J is too childish in that matter.
I just dont get what J is trying to do, hey, bored of relationship, dont be in one. It takes commitment, trust, lots of sharing, love. Okay, the key point here is commitment. It takes effort to be in commitment, really, it does. If you are acting like this, you will suffer the whole time. What will all the curses that you are going to have.
J, get over it.
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So, this is what A talked to W about.
W: "Do you still want D?" A: "Yes, cause I do love her so much." W: "Okay, now I want you to think about this." A: "Okay, what is it?" W: "First, if D comes back to you, can you accept D's bad habit, I mean, D cheated, can you accept that?" A: "I think so..." W: "Second, since D has cheated on you, J will obviously come running back to her, or text or call or go out with D. Can you deal with that?" A: ".............." W: "Third, are you willing to be the third person in the relationship? If D chose to be with J?"
I guess A have a lot to think about in this few weeks to come...