- right now, I am not so sure. Like really, I do commitment, expecting the exact same thing from my partner.
W: "First, if D comes back to you, can you accept D's bad habit, I mean, D cheated, can you accept that?"
- I will accept the fact that D cheated on me before, the same way that I accept the fact that D had slept with other girls before me.
W: "Second, since D has cheated on you, J will obviously come running back to her, or text or call or go out with D. Can you deal with that?"
- I dont think I can. But I will try, besides, cheating to me, is when you have feelings for someone and act on it. So, if J come running back, and D ignore the whole thing. It will be nothing. Right?
W: "Third, are you willing to be the third person in the relationship? If D chose to be with J?"
- I will right now, but cant promise that I will accept it in the long run. After all, why fight for a battle with no chance of winning when the battle is over. It is okay to fight for love, but it is not okay when you are fighting alone.